Happy New Year! I hope your travels have been marvelous and that you have plenty of stories to share! I’ve missed you!
I don’t have a real theme for this letter, just some short fun things. You know, like children. In this case, they’re my children.
Aspirations: We were talking about goals, and I mentioned to Kyle that one of his new friends used to swim competitively and that maybe they could do that together. Kyle responded that he doesn’t want to because he doesn’t want to shave his pits. He wants to grow out his armpit hair and braid it.
If Kyle has braidable armpit hair at age 10, I don’t think I’ll stand in his way.
Fat pants: I took the kids to run some errands after sledding New Years Eve and one of those was to pick up a movie at the movie store (is ours the only one left in the country?). I’d called ahead to make sure they had Lemony Snicket’s A Series of Unfortunate Events now that we’ve finished the third book. Since they were holding it for me, I asked if one of the boys would run in and get pick it up. Kyle said he didn’t want to go in because he was wearing his snow pants. I noted that lots of people around town were wearing snow pants. Certainly not a big deal. He responded, “But they make my legs look fat!”
Holidays: Vanessa was talking about “a holiday you celebrate and you get candles and you light them aaaaand you get to make your own presents. And play games. That’s all about Halmonica.”
Later, she told me, “That’s what Halmonica is about: presents, food, and chopsticks.”
During a festive dinner, Vanessa pulled out another slice of turkey, held it up and said, “THIS is my destiny!”
Of course I had a few grandma moments as well. I was driving a couple of the kids’ friends home and they were in the very back seat since the middle row is full of carseats. Two of us were having a great chat (although we had to holler back and forth, given the distance between us), and the other boy, attempting to join in, yelled, “Hey Mom! Uhhh, I mean, Grandma! I mean, not my grandma, but anyway…”.
The Y has hired someone to oversee events for the aging population–I had seen it in the newspaper and later that week, I got my very own personal invitation to join the senior group! They’ve got SilverSneakers, day trips, socials, and workshops covering topics like technology and aging well! I wonder if they provide daycare?
What’s new in your neck of the woods? By the way, I told the kids we have to clean out the extra bedroom (it’s become the room we stash everything in a hurry!) (Having that particular room as a stash room is a terrible idea. It’s door opens wide to the front door’s view, and Lucy and Vanessa are always venturing in there to see what treasures they can find. If I don’t remember to lock it, they always run in there to find something to present to our visitors!). They asked why, and I said that I’d like to have it ready for company. They excitedly asked who was coming, and I said, “I don’t know, maybe Jake and Cara, your grandparents, or hey, maybe Aunt Millie and Uncle Abe!” They vetoed your coming, I’m afraid. It’s too snowy to jump on the trampoline with Uncle Abe, and a visit without that is simply unacceptable. Here’s to spring!